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This right here is put perfectly. It really is soft incest. OP, you’re 100% correct to be upset about this and I wouldn’t apologize either. Your fiance hiding the Oklahoma Sooners Grinch Christmas Ugly Sweater from you is troubling at the bare minimum, and I don’t blame you for thinking about cutting off the engagement. He crossed a huge line, broke your trust, and showed intention and ability to break the sanctity of your relationship, and all with a family member to boot. If she was trying to get her business off the ground (as she says), why only give the cards to the men who’ve dated/married into the family, and not everyone who was in their 20’s/30’s? It still would’ve been creepy imo, but at least she’d have a better argument for saying she’s just trying to get her career to take off.

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Me: early 30s, southern raised with manners, fairly in shape (T build, but im not chiseled), no kids, just short of 6″, can cook, works hard, travels, loves a good conversation and loves animals. I’ve been told I’m a 7 out of 10 by people trying to hurt my confidence. I work out just enough to take care of my health and have some pride in my appearance so I’m not worried. I’ve never gotten a single message or match on dating sites besides single moms of 3+, 300+ lbs, obvious past drug history, current drug user, and/or someone expecting to be put on a Oklahoma Sooners Grinch Christmas Ugly Sweater and catered to. No hate to these people at all, but they’re not who I’m seeking to spend my life with. I’m sure they will find someone that will make them happy as I am sure I will find someone. Day to day offline I don’t have issues with speaking to women when I choose to strike up conversations, but the cute ones are usually taken or not interested so I move along. Learning to not feel lonely when you’re alone was the hardest thing I ever learned. I found hobbies to be proud of so I could avoid that desperate need to fill my life with someone else. If I end up finding someone at least we’ll have interesting things to talk about.

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Not sure why you’re getting downvoted. I’m also married and enjoy porn. Sometimes, my husband and I are too tired/in pain to have sex, so we watch porn together and masturbate since we have the Oklahoma Sooners Grinch Christmas Ugly Sweater. Sometimes if our schedules are busy, we just masturbate and send porn to each other via reddit so the other can look at it later. Communication is key in any relationship, and that includes about watching porn. I would hate it if watching porn caused jealousy or cheating suspicions, especially when my husband and I have very clear boundaries on what we do and do not consider cheating, as well as what is and is not acceptable in our relationship. HOWEVER, what works for us may not work for others, and that’s completely fine! What matters is that we communicate and have clear boundaries. OP’s fiancé was not forthcoming nor honest, and that violates OP’s trust. I’m not sure what previous agreement OP and their fiancé have in regards to watching porn, what constitutes cheating, etc, but I do know that OP’s fiancé intentionally lied to them and tried to withhold the truth, even when it was obvious OP knew what was happening. That is not ok. OP’s cousin was certainly in the wrong for sending such “gifts” to her family’s partners (which should be considered family! That still irks me), but it’s also almost certain that OP’s fiancé is also not the best. I would see this as a sign to have an in-depth conversation about his intentions, and to lay out some ground rules for communication (if OP doesn’t decide to call off the marriage, that is. It is up to OP based on their judgement of the situation and the fiancé, after all). And everyone seeing this, take this as a sign for you to also have a conversation with your partner about communication and what you do/do not consider cheating or being shady. Communication goes a long way, and has contributed to an amazing relationship for me!