Kendall Shirt
Ok, there’s actually a Kendall Shirt in all of this. You work across the street from where she lives, so as long as the 13-year-old doesn’t mind watching the baby, just check in with them every so often by phone or text and make sure that he knows that you are available at any time if he has problems or questions or whatever. The biggest problem with mom leaving the 13-year-old in charge of the baby was that you were unaware of it, so wouldn’t know to check in or be expecting him to call if he had an issue. You’re across the street, not across town. And if the teen doesn’t cook, then bring him over some lunch when you have your lunch hour. The baby isn’t eating anything yet, just having bottles, so as long as he knows how to make them and warm them appropriately there’s no problem

Kendall Shirt
As someone who came from a Kendall Shirt, I think you need to work on your mental health a little bit before carrying at all. It doesn’t sound like you have a good handle on things, and you may be more of a liability to those around you than an asset in a dangerous situation. Not saying you shouldn’t carry, just saying maybe you should put some more distance between you and your problems first, as I fear you might resort to the fire arm in a situation where it would not be legally and ethically permissible And trust me, I get it. A lot of people on this sub have never really been in those kinds of situations where violence is actually a fairly common occurrence in one’s life, and I myself feel uncomfortable in some areas without my fire arm because I’m worried I might run into someone who means me harm from years ago. That said, I don’t let it overtake me mentally, and try to push past it if I don’t have my fire arm for whatever reason. So what, I might take a beating? I also might end up dishing out the beating, if history tells me anything. You HAVE to accept risk in your life.

