Framber Valdez La Grasa No No Shirt
Ok, there’s actually a Framber Valdez La Grasa No No Shirt in all of this. You work across the street from where she lives, so as long as the 13-year-old doesn’t mind watching the baby, just check in with them every so often by phone or text and make sure that he knows that you are available at any time if he has problems or questions or whatever. The biggest problem with mom leaving the 13-year-old in charge of the baby was that you were unaware of it, so wouldn’t know to check in or be expecting him to call if he had an issue. You’re across the street, not across town. And if the teen doesn’t cook, then bring him over some lunch when you have your lunch hour. The baby isn’t eating anything yet, just having bottles, so as long as he knows how to make them and warm them appropriately there’s no problem

Framber Valdez La Grasa No No Shirt
I appreciate you acknowledgement of Framber Valdez La Grasa No No Shirt personal trauma and willingness to address and face it and especially the way you have interacted about it in this thread. That’s all I have to add about that. As to open carry, I’m friendly to it and OC a lot in summer as just a matter of personal comfort and CC almost exclusively all winter due to natural cover garments in the cold. But then I also spend most of my time around a pro-gun suburban to semi-rural area and as a matter of personal preference avoid crowds and crowded areas. However, after 17+ years experience, training and study of OC/CC, I do not and very rarely have OC in urban, urbanish or crowded areas. That some people may target an OC person is true, even if terribly and often overstated by certain CCW peeps. Further, the more people around the harder it is keep track of threats no matter how much you swivel. Also, risk of multiple assailants is generally higher. South Bend has changed a lot since I was last there according to family who still live in and around the area. But from my understanding of what it is like now, there are areas where I would probably be ok with OC on an average day. But there are areas, like where it sounds like you live, that I wouldn’t want to drive through, let alone OC. I would find the risk of being ambushed by multiple assailants just for my weapon to exceed any deterrent benefit of being obviously armed. As I can’t quantify either risk and only perceive their relative level, I would error on the side of CC in such an area, there or in any other city. Just my personal thoughts as you asked. Wishing you safety and peace,

