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They will usually advise that you don’t just assume consent when it has not been given to you. Don’t just sexually stimulate someone and assume they will enjoy it. Have an actual reason in your mind behind why you believe the All I need today is a little bit of Leafs and a whole lot of Jesus shirt is consenting, instead of just doing what you want and waiting to see if the person freaks out. And that is when people start freaking out. They invoke the husband and wife scenario above “but a husband couldn’t touch his wife then!” They complain that getting consent is a “turn off” and will “ruin the mood”. They object that having to get consent before every interaction will be a chore. You are not going to find any consent advocate argue that squeezing a stranger’s butt on the subway without warning is an okay thing to do. They are not going to advise people to have sex first and ask questions later. They are always going to advise people to err on the side of caution, if the person is requesting that they be told how to avoid ever being accused of misconduct.

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